Dear all,

The year you become 30, when you enter a new decade of your life….what happens then? Well. You turn 30. I’ve never been one to attach a great deal of attention to that age, still I think that by then you’ll (hopefully) have acquired some life experience and so I thought it might be interesting to share 30 thoughts/lessons (if you want to call them that) on turning/being 30. I’d love to know what your thoughts are. Let us know in the comments below.

  1. One that I like because I hear it pretty often around here: YOU DO YOU. Especially at 30, you’ve got this:You (hopefully) will have understood by now that you simply CANNOT please everyone.
  2. Your parents are cool and can also be your best friends.
  3. I would have never guessed that I would be celebrating my 30th birthday in a new country, let alone be living in another country at 30. So you see, life is an adventure, be open for all its opportunities.
  4. But, I’m perfectly okay with where I’m at. It’s funny to see how life unfolds.
  5. Don’t take yourself so seriously. Life is meant to be lived and fully experienced. Live, laugh, love.
  6. Trust your gut! Forreals. It usually knows what it’s doing. Especially at 30 you’re gut has been trained and tested maaaaany times, it knows what’s going on, ok? Trust you feelings.
  7. You believe that you deserve everything you set your heart and mind to.
  8. Sending hand-written thank you notes is just beautiful and it makes me really happy receiving them.
  9. All physical change begins internally.
  10. Set goals, reach them, and enjoy the success. Also, enjoy the ride along the way. 
  11. As a woman your girlfriends are very important. They will be your support system through thick and thin. When you find them, hold on to them. Be nice to them (see #12).
  12. Being kind never goes out of style, be a good friend, a good daughter a good work colleague. It will make you and everyone else around you just feel better.
  13. Happiness is not an achievement. It is a state-of-being and an active choice. You’re not always going to feel it and that’s okay too.
  14. A healthy lifestyle really brings you enjoyment.
  15. Also, it’s all about that balance y’all. It works when you couple healthy choices with the things that might not be so healthy but that do bring you joy.
  16. That said cookies, brownies and other chocolatey stuff is equally as amazing at 30 as at 3. 
  17. Living a simple life with clear focus based on meaningful values is where it’s at girls and boys. Slow down, be present, and be good to yourself.
  18. Sometimes all it takes is literally a change of perspective or talking to someone about it.
  19. Surround yourself with people that make you feel alive, curious, positive and allow you to be you.
  20. Life doesn’t work as a linear cycle; it’s a series of highs and lows that are intertwined, irregular, and often unpredictable.
  21. Sometimes you’ll have bad days or will feel down. That’s ok. It’s part of the deal.
  22. Be grateful for everything in your life.
  23. Giving can provide the same great euphoria as receiving.
  24. Money can buy a lot of things but it cannot buy you class.
  25. That drinking enough water thing, really IS IMPORTANT (had to find out at 30, took me some time).
  26. Nothing beats a home made dinner.
  27. Love Yourself (Justin Bieber says it, too, so you better believe it). 
  28. A title should never determine your self-worth.
  29. Sometimes you need to have a boring day? You don’t always have to have an overflowing schedule.
  30. Patience is a virtue (that I still need to learn).

1 Comment

  1. peter August 29, 2017 at 4:04 am

    LIKE & rate “top five” following of your 30 points on being 30 ( by numerical order;-): 11/12/13/17/19…as for 2 obviously am not objective but still like it a lot, of course :-))….and, hey, what you seem to take for granted ( and forgot to mention) is love, ,marriage and partnership :-))!!

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